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How To Get A Girlfriend

Written by admin on May 10, 2012

How to get a girlfriend in three easy steps.

It’s ironic that so many women out there are guarding their hearts thinking that every guy they encounter is just after one thing. Most women, on the other hand, are looking for a relationship (source).

Well, they would be surprised to learn that the majority (sure, not every single guy), but the majority of men out there really just want to find a girlfriend to spend time with. But first let’s look at what a Girlfriend is according to this Dictionary site.

Get A Girlfriend Like ThisIn actuality, it makes sense. Guys for the most part like that sense of stability. They like knowing that there is someone who turns them on and whom they like that they can spend time with. It’s a lot easier than being on the prowl and hoping to seduce some willing woman into their bed.

I’m not saying there aren’t guys out there just like that. And I’m also not saying that most guys don’t want to go through a stage like that. What I am saying is that despite what most women think, men are pretty darn happy when they find someone cool to hang out with on a regular basis.

But guys, if you are one of the men looking for a steady girl, you have to realize that most women have the misconception that a guy is going to possibly use and abuse them, but you can counteract that wariness with a few simple steps.

Here are three easy steps in how to get a girlfriend.

How to Get a Girlfriend Step One:

For the first minute you meet a girl, convey that you are someone she can trust. By your attitude, actions, and manner show you are an honest guy with integrity.

But beware, this does not mean you tell her everything about you. You need to keep a bit of yourself mysterious. If you are too open and honest, laying it all on the line, she’s going to lose her attraction toward you and stick you firmly in the friend zone.

Your goal is going to be to walk that fine line between building trust, honesty, and keeping the flames fanned.

How to Get A Girlfriend Step Two:

When you meet a woman, immediately make it clear that you aren’t like every other guy out there trying to attract her attention. One way to do this is to tease her in a funny way. Don’t say anything that will be hurtful, but tease her so she knows you do not place her on a pedestal and that she does not intimidate you.  Read more about how to get a girlfriend here.

How to Get a Girlfriend Step Three:

Build attraction between you and a woman from the first minute you meet. You can do this with body language and eye contact and the right type of touch. Too many men touch in the wrong way and it ends up scaring or turning women off.

The right way to touch to generate attraction is a light, brief touch on the arm. But a truly sexy way to touch a woman is to lean over and gently touch her on her lower back as you listen to what she has to say. You can also do this while maneuvering around her in a crowded room.

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How To Become A Pick Up Artist

Written by admin on April 20, 2012

One of the great mysteries in life is how to become a good pick up artist. Anyone can educate himself by following the specific technique that has been proven to work no matter what a man looks like. Even if a man does not make tons of money, he can learn how to date women who look like they should be on the cover of a magazine. The technique is easy to acquire.

The first mistake men make is approaching attractive women. That’s right; it is not the right tactic to go up to a woman that they see in a bar, for example. How would a man who is ordinary make a stunning woman want to talk to him?

Pick Up ArtistWhat men need to remember is that the most desirable women are always being approached by men; it is nothing special. To make himself stand out and become a successful pickup artist, he has to sit down right next to this type of woman and completely ignore her. She will be distraught, because a man is not talking to her and she will wonder what is wrong.

She will have to find out what the problem is, and she will not be able to resist being the one to talk to him first.Some women are brazen when they first speak to a man; the first words out of their mouths might be, “Aren’t you going to buy me a drink?” They are expecting men to want to do this, but when they encounter a pick up artist, they have come in contact with a rare breed.

The answer to her question is something along the lines of, “I don’t buy women drinks.” Although this may sound harsh, it is actually a line that makes women offer to buy the men drinks!Now that the women have broken the ice, a good PUA is free to engage her in conversation, but there are some subjects that the PUA should stay away from.

One of those is politics. This subject has the potential to lead to a heated argument if her politics are much different from the PUAs beliefs. An argument would certainly detract from an amorous evening, so opinionated matters are to be avoided at all cost and are not on the agenda when a PUA learns how to flirt with women. The subjects that are safe are those that concentrate on popular culture such as the latest singer to win a singing contest.

Mystery pictured with fellow PUA Bravo (left) ...

Mystery pictured with fellow PUA Bravo (left) and a SIN (from THE GAME) at a Neil Strauss's house for the VH1 season 2 wrap party. (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

One thing the PUA community has been accused of is encouraging men to abuse women. This characterization is definitely not the case. A true pick up artist does not have to coerce anyone into anything. He never has to touch the women in order to convince them to go to bed with them. If a woman goes home with a pick up artist and resists having sex with him, these men are advised to tell these women that they do not want to force them to do anything they don’t want to do and to leave.

That is the end of the story.

The part that is true about the PUA community is that deception is used, but this is harmless; it does not hurt a woman to be lied to, after all, these two people are strangers to one another and women are not immune to lying to men.

One of the things that men are advised to lie to women about is their job. A man who has a job at the local convenience store is not going to impress highly attractive women. They are looking for men who can take care of them financially, and a man who works in the convenience store cannot fill this need. The solution is to tell the women what they want to hear. You are a doctor, a lawyer, whatever you can think of that earns a lot of money.

A man has no need to feel ashamed of this deception. Any woman who goes to bed with him because he said he was a doctor is worthy of the disappointment she receives. Women are responsible for their own actions, just like men are responsible for their actions, but because men are not forcing these women to do anything, it is completely the women’s choice.

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What NOT To Do To Impress Girls

Written by admin on April 18, 2012

Sometimes the best way to accomplish your goal is to know what pitfalls to avoid on the way.  When it comes to impressing a girl, it is crucial that you know what to avoid along with what to do.

Here are a few things that are best avoided when you are trying to impress a girl.

What Not To Do Tip #1

1. Brag or show off. This might possibly be the worst thing you can do if you are trying to impress a girl. It’s also the most dangerous thing because it is the natural path that men steer toward when they try to impress a girl.

Telling a girl how smart you are or how rich are or how popular you are with the ladies, is going to backfire.

The truly cool men don’t have to talk about it.

In fact, they keep mum. And then, voila, what ends up happening is that eventually she finds out that you own a Maserati or that you are a famous scientist or that you own your own island and she will be blown away fascinated with you because you never felt the need to share this with her when you first met.

What Not To Do Tip #2Cute Girl In Bikini

2. Grope her or be crude. So many dates are going along swimmingly when the guy blows it by doing something immature and crude, such as grabbing a breast or an ass or saying something nasty to her. I don’t care if you are imagining all the dirty things you want to do to her when you get back to her place later, keep it inside.

Once you have a relationship established you can determine whether she likes to be groped or likes dirty talk, but until then, avoid it if you want to impress her.

What Not To Do Tip #3

3. Don’t try to impress her by taking her out to a fancy dinner or showering her with gifts. Show her a good time by being creative instead of spending money.

Let’s face it, any guy can fork over a lot of money for a fancy dinner at a restaurant, but not any guy can arrange for a fiddler to serenade her during a beach picnic.

Not any guy can set up a scavenger hunt in his neighborhood for gourmet dinner supplies and then arrange a rooftop dinner by candlelight.

Check out this great article on MSN about the Dumb Things Guys Do To Impress Girls.

Nobody wants to think that a guy is trying to buy her affection. Any woman who responds to this is probably trying to use you or is damaged goods.

You can make sure you are dating a woman who likes you for who you are, not what you can give her. Read more about how to impress a girl here.

Impress her by showing you are a guy who knows how to have a good time and is creative enough to keep her entertained without having to shower her with gifts or money. Anyone who responds to that is bad news.

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