The AMOG (Alpha Male of the Group) is not easy to conquer. Though destroying him is the prime rib of the agenda for a PUA, his tactics are aggressive and he can often steal the girl before the PUA has a chance to devise a plan to destroy him. He is known to hog the attention so as to eliminate any threats from other men and may also be capable of using violence to intimidate others. So what are the best AMOG destroyer tactics a PUA can use to defeat him?
1. Keep Your Friends Close and the AMOG Closer
As the saying goes, “the closer you are to danger, the further you are from harm.” The same is no less true when it comes to the Alpha Male. Befriending the Alpha can often have advantages for the pick-up artist. Instead of showing that frustration, use it to conquer him. The more you appear unaffected by his tactics the harder he will try – in turn making a bigger fool of himself. However, he will soon back off when he realizes his efforts are to no avail.
2. Focus on the Woman, not the Alpha Male.
Focusing attention on the AMOG can be difficult to avoid when he’s submitting so much effort to maintain the spotlight. But as hard as that might be, giving him that attention is exactly what he wants. Instead of submitting to him, focus your attention instead on the woman you have been admiring. In the end, the Alpha Male may just back off. If your goal is to capture her attention your best bet is to dedicate your attention to her and avoid falling victim to the tactics of the Alpha.
3. Whisk Her Away from His Grasp Another great destroyer tactic is whisking the apple away from his eye. Instead of sitting around putting up with the nonsense from this guy, why not invite that special woman to walk with you in the park or grab a cocktail? If she’s into you she will accept the offer and the two of you can happily escape his presence for the remainder of the evening. If she does not accept your offer take that as a cue to cut your losses and seek out a new prospect.
4. Never Let the Alpha Male Win Whatever you do, avoid cowering to the Alpha Male at all costs. If he senses that you are intimidated by him he will only continue to steal your girl at every opportunity that he gets. As a general rule, the best option is to act as though his tactics do not even phase you. Attempting to compete with him for the attention of the woman in question will only succeed in pushing her away and neither of you will be able to snag her. Destroying the AMOG is certainly no easy task. Anyone who has dealt with him knows just how persistent he can be in his efforts to maintain the center spotlight. In any event, the key to overcoming him and landing the girl is being yourself and avoiding letting him get to you.
