What men need to remember is that the most desirable women are always being approached by men; it is nothing special. To make himself stand out and become a successful pick up artist, he has to sit down right next to this type of woman and completely ignore her. She will be distraught, because a man is not talking to her and she will wonder what is wrong. She will have to find out what the problem is, and she will not be able to resist being the one to talk to him first.
Some women are brazen when they first speak to a man; the first words out of their mouths might be, “Aren’t you going to buy me a drink?” They are expecting men to want to do this, but when they encounter a pick up artist, they have come in contact with a rare breed. The answer to her question is something along the lines of, “I don’t buy women drinks.” Although this may sound harsh, it is actually a line that makes women offer to buy the men drinks!
Now that the women have broken the ice, a good PUA is free to engage her in conversation, but there are some subjects that the PUA should stay away from. One of those is politics. This subject has the potential to lead to a heated argument if her politics are much different from the PUAs beliefs. An argument would certainly detract from an amorous evening, so opinionated matters are to be avoided at all cost and are not on the agenda when a PUA learns how to flirt with women. The subjects that are safe are those that concentrate on popular culture such as the latest singer to win a singing contest.
One thing the PUA community has been accused of is encouraging men to abuse women. This characterization is definitely not the case. A true pick up artist does not have to coerce anyone into anything. He never has to touch the women in order to convince them to go to bed with them. If a woman goes home with a pick up artist and resists having sex with him, these men are advised to tell these women that they do not want to force them to do anything they don’t want to do and to leave. That is the end of the story.
The part that is true about the PUA community is that deception is used, but this is harmless; it does not hurt a woman to be lied to, after all, these two people are strangers to one another and women are not immune to lying to men. One of the things that men are advised to lie to women about is their job. A man who has a job at the local convenience store is not going to impress highly attractive women. They are looking for men who can take care of them financially, and a man who works in the convenience store cannot fill this need. The solution is to tell the women what they want to hear. You are a doctor, a lawyer, whatever you can think of that earns a lot of money.
A man has no need to feel ashamed of this deception. Any woman who goes to bed with him because he said he was a doctor is worthy of the disappointment she receives. Women are responsible for their own actions, just like men are responsible for their actions, but because men are not forcing these women to do anything, it is completely the women’s choice.
